LeT iT bE...

When the world is trying to drown you,

When the world surrounds you,

When everyone wants answers from you,

Let the words be clear to you.

Let it be….

When curses stop punching you,

When regret fails to bother you,

Just think wild and feel free…

And just let it be….

For the world is mean and coward,

Pain and suffering is the only reward.

For no one can truly see,

Just let it be…..

Happiness is the gift they despise,

Tax is what they desire.

Happiness is for the courage and strong,

Pardon me for being weak and wrong..

No matter what I would still remain free,

And always say let it be….

When Friends hurt...

September 1,2008 was a difficult day for me....
i just wanted to skip the day...as if just the touch of the day would burn my skin...
i didnt want to be seen......nor did i wanted to be heard...

So i just shut myself in my room...slept the whole day trying to avoid any rare glimpses that i might have been forced to encounter...

The toughest thing to do in life is not to run away from the world...but to run away from yourself....i felt trying to force my self into ignorance that if i keep my eyes shut, no one, not even myself would be able to see me!!!

My friends, were perturbed by the whole thing, enquired me bout my erratic behavior...
but unfortunately i couldn't tell them...

They say "you can solve all problems of life if you have friends with you..." But what if the friends themselves give you the pain of problems???? Who do u go to then???

Its strange that friends can really hurt u badly... and wen they do they can really hurt so deeply that it takes the breath out of you.... The most articulate way to save ur self is by telling your friend what the problem is...

But i guess i've found my better way of fighting the troubles that i cant handle at that time....

I just dont handle them at that moment!!! I leave it to the Lord... and believe in him...Just as a new born believes in his mother....

It just works for me!!!!

Does crying help???

Crying is the well known phenomena where tears roll down the eye.The usual occurance of this phenomena is when we are in some emotional trouble,when feel sad abut something...when something so close to us leaves us and the only way to bid adieu is the tears... apart from these...tears can also roll down when a foreign body tries to barge in....and last of when we are cutting onion!!!!!

biologically speaking... tears are the mechanisms by which we can prevent bacteria or some other foreign material from damaging our eyes....It contains something we biologists call lysosomes...

the question now is does crying help??? we have always used tears as a means of letting ourselves know of the immense grief our body is going thru at that time.....we have used it as a way to calm our body after a difficult situation that we find incapable of handling...even though crying may portray our inner weakness of handling the emotional trauma....Men prefer to avoid it...Even though todays metro sexual men dont hesitate to show it off!!!

Although women have many a times used it as a potent weapon to ensure their conquest over men....

Knowing Someone....truely....

First of all the inspiration of this post...Even though my quest for knowing people is not new (refer to activities in orkut profile!! ) but it has been proliferated by some of the latest observations of people around me...

These are the last days of the college and probably time to look back just a bit and see what mess we created!!! but along with the smiles on own follies (and of course of others!!), it is also time we kinda feel the urge to be emotional and attached to people and memories associated with college...
It is an extension of this feeling that we try to understand people around us...

My story starts with this.Lately i have been questioning as to whether i know the people i know ( not that i didnt do that earlier!!!).

What prompts me is the initial results m getting...I have changed my opinions about a no. of people...People i thot were wicked and mean..turned out to be nicer than i thot....

Probably a lot of that things are because we have formed our closed friend groups and we make opinions about people based on what some 1 in our group has said or what the rest of the college says about that person....

But believe me until you have personally known some 1 closely...never make an opinion about that person...and even if you have made some opinion you should be flexible in changing them...
Wen people can change in a year or so...why can't you change opinion about that person...

I have, in my years in college, found people who have told me that they had an opinion bout me before...but after knowing me....they found it to be completely opposite....

SO THE MORAL OF BLOG IS: "NEVER MAKE AN OPINION ABOUT SOME ONE UNTIL YOU PERSONALLY KNOW THAT PERSON"