First of all the inspiration of this post...Even though my quest for knowing people is not new (refer to activities in orkut profile!! ) but it has been proliferated by some of the latest observations of people around me...
These are the last days of the college and probably time to look back just a bit and see what mess we created!!! but along with the smiles on own follies (and of course of others!!), it is also time we kinda feel the urge to be emotional and attached to people and memories associated with college...
It is an extension of this feeling that we try to understand people around us...
My story starts with this.Lately i have been questioning as to whether i know the people i know ( not that i didnt do that earlier!!!).
What prompts me is the initial results m getting...I have changed my opinions about a no. of people...People i thot were wicked and mean..turned out to be nicer than i thot....
Probably a lot of that things are because we have formed our closed friend groups and we make opinions about people based on what some 1 in our group has said or what the rest of the college says about that person....
But believe me until you have personally known some 1 closely...never make an opinion about that person...and even if you have made some opinion you should be flexible in changing them...
Wen people can change in a year or so...why can't you change opinion about that person...
I have, in my years in college, found people who have told me that they had an opinion bout me before...but after knowing me....they found it to be completely opposite....
SO THE MORAL OF BLOG IS: "NEVER MAKE AN OPINION ABOUT SOME ONE UNTIL YOU PERSONALLY KNOW THAT PERSON"
Saturday, February 7, 2009
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