Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Anger - reliever or destroyer???

Life is difficult many a times...It shows us a lot of its vagaries...Some times its beautiful but some other day, some other time you feel chucking everything for good...

One disadvantage of being introvert is that some disturbing issues get imprisoned in the mind...Which then churn your soul, searching for a solution.

When many such issues get stacked you feel like being smothered by the indomitable strength of your conscience. A war is being waged inside of you while people watch and admire your smiles and your refreshing energy...

Keeping to oneself is a great teacher...It teaches how to absorb humiliation,a hard word or comment, a bad break up, a heated argument,a hurting statement from a friend...But above all it teaches to calm the anger...

Most of the times i brush away anger by turning it into a joke...But some times it relapses...unwilling to be cowed down by any argument...which sometimes brings me to a situation where my personality begins to show changes...i get irritated at slightest pretext...the things which earlier used to be a mere joke now sends tsunamis in the mind and attracts a high pitched tone... filled with vengeance....

This brings me to the most important question!!! Is anger (preached by the wise to be the ruiner of everything) a reliever from the pain,a breath of freedom from the stress, an instance of uprising from within? or a passive killer that eats away a person???

Getting angry is not what i am very good at...Probably thats why i don't practice it much!!!!
Anger they say is the immoral of all...that depraves the mind making it intoxicated which then ceases to see any logic or hear any rational thought...

On the other hand, being angry lets out the frustration that is hell bent on bursting like a crater...It is a vent that lets the inner emotions see the outside light...

Probably anger is the red monster we like to become at times and its perfectly normally to be angry but it has to be controlled so that we know when to stop...lest it should ruin our lives for good!!!

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